Digital Relationships
I remember very recently i said to one of my friend that for me either someone is a friend or not & he said you mean its digital ??
I feel actually if we take all our relationships because we like it & dont drag as compromise with the social structure, they are digital.Otherwise why in this busy life we will go & talk to someone or vice versa.
Today is b'day of one of my school friends so this thought came to my mind again. I remembered him on his every b'day but had lost touch with him for some five years as his father got transferred. In between the only contact was through "once in a blue moon" emails.But for the past one year we are in touch again.He tells me about changes in his life in these years about his job,new friends, one of his very special friend whom he will marry soon,new place where he is now,anything & everything.We call each other once in a month or so but know that we are there to share thoughts when we need.(May be strange for all the ppl who think a guy & a gal cannot be just good friends.)
I feel actually if we take all our relationships because we like it & dont drag as compromise with the social structure, they are digital.Otherwise why in this busy life we will go & talk to someone or vice versa.
Today is b'day of one of my school friends so this thought came to my mind again. I remembered him on his every b'day but had lost touch with him for some five years as his father got transferred. In between the only contact was through "once in a blue moon" emails.But for the past one year we are in touch again.He tells me about changes in his life in these years about his job,new friends, one of his very special friend whom he will marry soon,new place where he is now,anything & everything.We call each other once in a month or so but know that we are there to share thoughts when we need.(May be strange for all the ppl who think a guy & a gal cannot be just good friends.)
I feel someone is close to you,wen you understand,seek to be understood,affirm the worth in words,pray with them & for them,& biggest of all sacrifice for them.I always believe Conversation is life-transforming,we should talk honestly about our relations & express them because People don't care how much you know, until you tell them how much you care!!


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